Happiness really doesn’t cost a thing, study explains

Happiness may not have a high price tag, a new study explains. A team in Spain is highlighting the numerous indigenous peoples and local communities worldwide who lead fulfilling lives, despite possessing minimal financial resources.

The notion that money buys happiness is a common assumption in economics and policy. As incomes rise, people are generally expected to lead more fulfilling lives. Indeed, international polls have shown that people in wealthier countries consistently rate themselves as more satisfied than people in poorer countries. Based on this pattern, organizations like the UN have promoted economic growth policies aimed at raising incomes across the globe.

The study, conducted by the research team at the Universitat Autònoma de Barcelona in Spain, found that many societies with low incomes still experience levels of life satisfaction that rival those in affluent nations. This discovery challenges the conventional connection tying wealth and happiness, suggesting that in small-scale societies where monetary transactions are infrequent, contentment may originate from factors other than financial wealth.

“The strong correlation frequently observed between income and life satisfaction is not universal and proves that wealth – as generated by industrialized economies – is not fundamentally required for humans to lead happy lives,” says Victoria Reyes-Garcia, ICREA researcher at ICTA-UAB and senior author of the study, in a media release.

The study’s authors have long questioned the universality of the relationship between income and happiness. While higher earnings may improve life evaluations within a given cultural context, multiple lines of research suggest income has limited value for emotional well-being once basic needs are met. For instance, as societies become wealthier over time, people do not necessarily become happier, a phenomenon known as the Easterlin Paradox. The research team hypothesized that polling a wider range of societies—especially those on the margins of the global economy—could lead to new perspectives.

To address the lack of data on happiness in these communities, the researchers surveyed nearly 3,000 people across 19 Indigenous communities in the Americas, Africa, Asia, and the South Pacific. Remarkably, only 64 percent of the households surveyed reported having any cash income.

The findings indicate an average life satisfaction score of 6.8 out of 10 among these communities. Notably, four sites reported average satisfaction scores above 8, comparable to those observed in the wealthy Scandinavian countries, according to other surveys. The lowest average on record for these sites was 5.1, but the researchers note that overall, these results are consistent with the notion that human societies can support very satisfactory lives without material wealth.

The results revealed a stark contrast with leading international polls like the Gallup World Poll. Across 150 countries, the Gallup data shows national average life satisfaction ratings consistently correlated with income, only exceeding 7 out of 10 in countries where per capita GDP tops $40,000 per year. Meanwhile, many Indigenous groups with estimated annual incomes below $1,000 per person reported averages above 8 out of 10.

Many societies with low incomes still experience levels of life satisfaction that rival those in affluent nations. (JillWellington / pixabay.com)

“Surprisingly, many populations with very low monetary incomes report very high average levels of life satisfaction, with scores similar to those in wealthy countries,” says Eric Galbraith, a researcher at ICTA-UAB and McGill University and lead author of the study. “This is so, despite many of these societies having suffered histories of marginalization and oppression.”

The researchers used statistical models to assess which factors best explain variations in life satisfaction at the different sites. Individual income showed a positive correlation, confirming that money contributes to happiness up to a point. However, wealth differences accounted for only a very small portion of the total variation among respondents. Instead, the team found unknown village-level characteristics unrelated to average income were far more predictive of life satisfaction reports.

For Happiness in the New Year, Stop Overdoing Everything

Each New Year, we pledge to transform our bodies, improve our careers, organize our homes and develop new hobbies. We dedicate ourselves to doing more—more exercise, more work, more activities and social engagements. On its face, striving for more sounds pretty good. But it also has a dark side that we need to resist.

As a neuropsychologist, much of my work focuses on how people respond to stress. I often find myself helping people understand the effects of self-defeating behaviors that I call the Overs. It’s a familiar list: overworking, overachieving, overthinking, overexplaining, overgiving, overcommitting and overaccommodating.

We engage in the Overs to create psychological safety for ourselves. They’re a form of nervous-system regulation. When you feel anxiety, stress, frustration or uncertainty, it’s because threat networks in your brain have activated: You’re afraid. To restore balance, you engage in compensatory behaviors designed to alleviate your fear. You may think, for example, that you overwork so your boss won’t get mad at you, but the deeper explanation is that you overwork to relieve the stress you feel in the face of that prospect.

All too often, however, the Overs themselves become a primary source of psychological danger in our lives. In my work with high-achieving individuals, they often agree that all their overfunctioning feels bad to them, but they insist they need to continue overdoing it in order to stay safe—or, as they put it, to stay “relevant” or “on top.” Regardless of the semantics, the underlying neurobiology is the same: Overdoing is a form of self-protection. The problem is, it becomes bad for us.

Consider overachieving—the unrelenting drive for high performance. The conventional wisdom is that “striving to be one’s best” is a form of resilience that makes us more productive. Recent research suggests otherwise. A 2018 meta-analysis of 25,000 people, conducted by Dana Harari and colleagues and published in the Journal of Applied Psychology, found no relationship between actual performance and the perfectionism typical of overachievers. In other words, constantly striving to be the best performer doesn’t make you the best performer.

But it does carry serious costs in terms of mental and physical health. A 2017 study by a team of Chinese researchers found that perfectionism was related to greater anxiety and depression. Researchers at Vanderbilt University examined the relationship between overachieving and reward-related neurocircuitry and reported in a 2012 study that overachievers had higher levels of dopamine, a neurotransmitter related to both motivation and addiction. The brain can create powerful cravings that perpetuate our overfunctioning—the more you overfunction, the more you want to overfunction.

Or take another example: overthinking. If overthinking worked, it would allow us to solve more problems in our lives. But research shows the opposite is true. Overthinking is linked to poorer decision-making, greater interpersonal problems and more distress. The point of thinking about our problems is to reduce our problems, not to exacerbate them.

To break the grip of the Overs in the coming year, it’s imperative to see them for what they are: forms of safety-seeking. We think that if we overachieve or overthink, then “they” can’t harm us—other people can’t get mad at us, dominate us or reject us. But the reality is that when we chronically overdo it, we harm ourselves, with real consequences for our mental and physical health. Thinking more intelligently about the deeper psychological needs behind our behavior can help us find needed balance.

Here are three simple strategies to help you stop overdoing it in your life.

• Decide on a new boundary and expect it to feel bad.

To stop overdoing, plan for some feelings of distress to emerge temporarily as you behave in more balanced ways. Overfunctioning is a hypervigilance strategy, a way that your brain organizes your behavior to protect you from potential danger. For example, if you decide to stop checking email after 7 p.m. in the New Year, your brain will sound an alarm after 7 p.m.: What if there’s an important message you missed? What if your boss gets mad at you? If you respond to the urge, you will reinforce the very behavior you are trying to change.

But if you commit to your new boundary, your brain will habituate rather quickly. One of the most effective ways to overcome fear is through habituation. Habituation simply means repeatedly exposing yourself to something that initially frightens you, and after repeated exposures, your brain learns that the thing is not dangerous.

• Recognize the difference between danger and dislike.

As you start to create these new boundaries, there may be real consequences. For example, if you stop overaccommodating your friends, family and co-workers, they may become frustrated with you. It’s natural to dislike that, but it does not mean it’s dangerous. Research shows that people overestimate the negative consequences of their decisions.

What will harm you is chronically avoiding the negative feelings that your decisions may generate. Avoiding and denying take tremendous amounts of psychological energy—and often change our lives for the worse. Take PTSD: If someone was traumatized in a military convoy, the pain of PTSD often sets in later when, for example, they feel they have to avoid ordinary activities like driving on suburban streets. People avoid these things not because the activities are dangerous but because they believe their feelings are.

Although PTSD is an extreme example, a similar logic applies to our regular lives. Although we may think facing our feelings is dangerous, the opposite is true: We find relief when we’re able to distinguish real danger from mere dislike.

• Consider that you might be the most dangerous person in your own life.

In my work, this is the concept that produces the most profound shifts for people. Often, we overfunction because we feel like the “other” isn’t safe—that another person will reject, harm or disappoint us. When you repeatedly attempt to restore your sense of psychological safety through other people—through their validation, permission or mood—you might feel better temporarily, but you ultimately destabilize your own sense of safety. You have persuaded yourself that what is necessary to regulate your nervous system isn’t your own inner authority but someone else’s permission.

As a result, you’re not in charge of how much you work, give or do—someone else is. This is a perennial recipe for overdoing it. Instead, we need to recognize that the most powerful determiner of our own safety is no one but ourselves.

Source : (WSJ Article ) Julia DiGangi is a neuropsychologist and founder of NeuroHealth Partners. She is the author of “Energy Rising: The Neuroscience of Leading with Emotional Power,” published by Harvard Business Review Press.

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More virus rules fall as CDC hints at better times ahead

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Customers eat at the Reading Terminal Market in Philadelphia, Wednesday, Feb. 16, 2022. Philadelphia city officials lifted the city’s vaccine mandate for indoor dining and other establishments that serve food and drinks, but an indoor mask mandate remains in place. Philadelphia Public Health officials announced that the vaccine mandate was lifted immediately Wednesday. (AP Photo/Matt Rourke)

COVID-19 is heading towards ‘endemic’, says AIIMS senior epidemiologist

A senior epidemiologist at All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) in Delhi on Sunday said SARS-CoV-2 which is commonly known as COVID-19 is heading towards an endemic stage. Endemic is a stage where cases are confined to a particular geographical location and the cases are constantly present in low numbers in that specific area.

“Looking at the COVID-19 vaccination status and the natural infection, we can say that very soon, the majority of us will be getting an infection. And then this virus will convert into the endemic virus,” Dr. Sanjay Rai told here.

The AIIMS senior epidemiologist also remarked that those who recovered from the COVID are the best-protected people as of now based on the scientific evidence followed by vaccinated persons.

Source : https://www.aninews.in/news/national/general-news/covid-19-is-heading-towards-endemic-says-aiims-senior-epidemiologist20220123223609/

 

7 Sweet Ways To Make Your Wife Feel Like The Luckiest Woman Ever

Let’s be honest — back in college, for those of us looking to marry a woman, it was our goal to make our soon-to-be wives feel like the luckiest girl in the world.

In fact, it was our mission! We bought flowers, listened, took her on dates that cost more money than we actually had, and arrived at her beck and call if she had a bad day. We did all this because we wanted to win her heart.

Why is this so hard to translate into married life, years later?

I’ll never forget the night. It was the end of a long, stressful week, and I was tired. I just wanted to call it a night and get some sleep. My wife’s week had been just as long and stressful. She wanted to unwind and have an actual adult conversation too since her week consisted of conversations with toddlers.

But I was zoned out, consumed with my own weariness. I think there was even a football game that took my attention. I could see the look on her face. She wasn’t angry or demanding, belligerent or shameful; she was hurt. Genuinely hurt.

My week had consisted of meetings, deadlines, and conversations … lots of conversations. With adults, no less. People who could intelligibly respond to my question or dialogue without snickering under their breath, calling me a doo-doo head, or screaming “I have to go potty” in my face.

I want you to want to be with me,” she said when I finally clued in and asked what was wrong. “I don’t feel as important as all of these other things.” I realize that many readers have spouses who work outside of the home, but the same principle applies.

It was a wake-up call. One I needed. In fact, it’s still one I need from time to time. I’m a long way from getting this down to a science.

After nearly 16 years of marriage, you learn some things. I tend to learn the hard way. In my heart, I want my wife to know, and feel, that she’s the most important person on earth to me. The question is, how? How do I make her feel like she’s the luckiest woman in the world?

7 sweet ways to make your wife feel like the luckiest woman ever:

1. Put her needs above your own.

Last year I wrote a post called The Serving Spouse. In it, I talked about the importance of putting your spouse’s needs above your own. I believe that if more married couples did this, the marital success rate would increase exponentially.

Husbands, this is crucial. Become the biggest servant of your wife. You will win when you do this. Trust me! That’s why it’s the first bullet point. If you and I can get this one right, our wives will feel honored every single day of their lives. And they will show the same respect for your needs, too.

2. Show up unexpectedly, often.

Only stay at work late three out of the five days of the week. Come home early (or on time) the other two. Surprise her for lunch and spend time with her when she’s at home. Voluntarily go with her to the things she’s involved in.

You and I should not only show up unexpectedly often but also pack surprises when we can. This is bigger than flowers. Surprise her by farming all of the kids out for the evening and taking her on a date. Surprise her by coming home early, volunteering to clean the kitchen, or taking it upon yourself to carry a load of laundry upstairs. She’ll feel valued and cherished when you do these random, seemingly minuscule, acts for her.

3. Think like you’re in college.

There was no distance you and I weren’t willing to walk or measure we weren’t willing to go to see her, talk to her, or be with her. Somehow this dies (or goes on life-support) when you move from sharing a college campus to sharing a house, a bed, and a life with her. Why is that?

I remember finagling my class schedule (even if it cost me a better grade) to see my future wife when we were in college. Heck, I even blew off class to hang out in the city with her. Why don’t I think like that these days? Why don’t you? Maybe we should start thinking, or even acting like we’re in college more often.

Disclaimer: If you got caught making out in the back of the library or something when you were in college, you may want to modify acting like you’re in college with everything. 🙂

4. Give her 1 for every 3.

For every three hours you’re working or spending time doing what you love, give her one full hour of your undivided attention. For instance, if your workday is nine hours long, give her three hours. After a week that adds up to 15. You’ve got your weekend covered!

5. Actually want to be with her.

It’s one thing to say you want to spend time with your wife, but it’s another thing to actually want to do it. Guess what, fellas? She can tell when you’re faking it. Our wives are not stupid. Just because you got the college degree and she didn’t finish because she married you and eventually began the most important job in the world as a stay-at-home-mom, doesn’t mean she’s not smart. She is!

6. Ignore your phone at home.

This is a big one for me. I bet it is for a lot of you guys too. I know the struggle—work is important, and so are exterior relationships. I get it. I’ve got a blog that averages close to 100,000 readers a month and a Twitter following that’s over 22,000. My email subscriber list is growing too. While those aren’t astronomical numbers, they’re still high enough to keep me busy, all the time.

The reality, however, is that I don’t always need to be on my phone answering tweets, or responding to commenters on our blog. I need downtime, away time, but, so does my wife. More importantly, she needs me. Not just my presence, but my focus.

7. Date her.

I know you’ve heard this a million times in the past, but it’s such an important thing to do. For some odd reason, we lose the value of this after we get married. We did too for a time. And the funny thing is, I lived to take my wife on dates before we got married. Why is this a chore for me at times? Why is it for you?

What I’ve learned is simple: when I intentionally plan times for her and me to get away (for a good amount of time, not just a trip to Target) she feels valued. Plain and simple. Guys, you and I need to make this a priority. We need to spend time away from our kids and our home so we can invest in our marriages and get to know our wives on a deeper level.

As I said earlier in this post, I’m far from getting this down to a science. In fact, I blow this often. Guys, you and I are rowing in the same boat. We’ve got work to do. It’s the most important work in the world. Our marriages are worth it. Our wives are worth it.

Remember, she was the girl of your dreams back in the day. She’s the one human being who could actually get your heart beating fast. Treat her like she’s still all of this and more. In fact, treat her like the queen of the world!

Source : https://www.yourtango.com/love/7-sweet-ways-make-wife-feel-like-luckiest-woman-ever

‘Bed-ridden’ man in Jharkhand starts walking after receiving Covid vaccine

A man in Jharkhand has claimed that he started walking again after he received the first dose of Covid-19 vaccine.

A man in Jharkhand’s Bokaro district, who was reportedly bed-ridden for four years, claimed that he started walking again after he received the first dose of Covid-19 vaccine.

Dularchand, 44, a resident of Bokaro’s Petarwar village, reportedly met with an accident four years ago. He allegedly lost his voice and was bedridden following the accident.

On January 4, Dularchand received the first dose of Covishield vaccine on January 4. According to Dr Albel Kerketta, medical in-charge of Petarwar community health centre, Dularchand’s body started reacting a day after he received the Covid-19 vaccine.

Days after receiving the vaccine, Dularchand claimed that he could stand on his feet and regained his lost voice. “Glad to have taken this vaccine. There is movement in my legs since taking the vaccine on January 4,” Dularchand told ANI.

Bokaro’s civil surgeon Dr Jitendra Kumar said while the incident was surprising, it was no miracle. He also ordered the formation of a medical team to analyse the medical history of Dularchand.

 

News Source: https://www.indiatoday.in/india/story/bed-ridden-man-jharkhand-walks-receiving-covid-vaccine-1900320-2022-01-15

 

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